Lesson 8: Collect experiences, not skills

In a world that often values specialization and expertise, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea that we need to master specific skills to be successful. However, I’ve learned that the true richness of life comes from collecting experiences rather than merely accumulating skills. This shift in perspective has allowed me to embrace new challenges for the sake of the experience itself, rather than focusing on what I might gain from it.

We all have that one friend who seems to have a knack for everything. They can pick up any new activity, whether it’s painting, coding, or sports, and excel without much effort. It’s impressive, but it can also feel intimidating. I’ve often found myself questioning why I should even try if I don’t think I can become as good as they are. However, I realized that the goal isn’t always to be the best; sometimes, it’s simply to enjoy the journey of learning and doing.

My first real insight into this concept came during a PA expedition where we were tasked with essential survival skills. We learned how to start a fire, cook outdoors, and navigate the wilderness. At first, I was nervous, worried that I wouldn’t be able to perform as well as others. But once I let go of that pressure and focused on the experience itself, I began to appreciate every moment. I laughed with my friends as we fumbled through the cooking process and celebrated our small victories, like finally getting a fire going. Each challenge became a memory rather than a test of skill.

Similarly, during a trekking adventure, I discovered how to pack a rucksack efficiently and adapt to extreme weather conditions. Rather than fixating on becoming an expert trekker, I relished the thrill of exploring nature, overcoming obstacles, and sharing stories with my fellow adventurers. These experiences, filled with laughter and camaraderie, shaped my character far more than any technical skill could.

There's a quote that goes, “Jack of all trades, master of none.” It’s often used to imply that someone who dabbles in many things lacks depth. However, I’ve come to appreciate the extended version: “Jack of all trades, master of none is still better than a master of one.” This resonates deeply with me as it emphasizes the value of versatility and the richness of diverse experiences.

So, as you navigate your own journey, remember to collect experiences rather than just skills. Embrace the joy of trying new things and savor the moments that life offers you. In the end, it’s not about how many skills you have but the memories and stories that shape who you are.